musicalj2
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In some versions of the Bible, stories start with the phrase 'And it came to pass'. Whether or not you believe in anything other than yourself, that phrase in itself is a good one to hang on to.
You'll find as you go through life that personal crises and disasters can be devastating at the time they occur, but as time passes and life goes on, other things and people take their place.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself down, and start all over again, as the old song used to put it. |
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dr.pillmd
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at least ya dying with a smile:) |
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Margarita J
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yes that is a good song |
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Fusion
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Breath easy. |
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.caraxbeara.
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Haha, to first answer. Mean, but funny.
Okay.
Uhm.
First of all, don't kill yourself. She's not all that matters.
There are plenty of people who love you.
You'll get over this eventually. I can guarantee you that.
Take her out of your life completely; easiest way to go about it. |
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J E
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How poetic.... ;)
Are you desperate to get what you seek, or are you desperate to stop seeking it?
I see two possible outcomes. |
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gothicragdolly
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its happened to me...but thankfully I found my fiance who made up for it all. When its right you will know. You will always have ups and downs. The best thing to do is take a day or two to yourself and then head back out. Im not saying go crazy with every woman you see but smile, say hi, itll make you feel much better. When its time you'll find her. did she say why? maybe she just wasnt ready to be in a relationship. |
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Linda B
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God, do I ever know how that feel. I still feel that way about a man for, idk, years later. The pain does fade in time. Something that helped me was to focus on his faults, and ask myself how would I have felt if I lived with that for the rest of my life. After many years, that's the only way I could find to detach myself enough to truly hope he has a wonderful life without me.
Blessed Be |
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Mark B
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how why did you lose her? |
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Bezza
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Belive me it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. |
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matsystud
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sorry to hear that, i have several holes in mine :( |
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londongate11
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Sometimes life is like that. Take it easy and time will heal your heart and everything else. Someone will come along and fix your heart and make your heart grow stronger. I promise. |
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juju
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ive been there but no one has ever died with a broken heart.although it sure feels like it just pray it helped me. |
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Roswelldreamer
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Only if you give your power completely over to her. |
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sheezy.
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well what u shudnt do is:
listen to sad songs
eat a carton of icecream
think about her
stay at home and not bathe
join the commesary
but u shud:
get back out there
delete her #
find someone prettier
stop sulking |
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UH HUH HER
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I guess you just loved her so much. |
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ArachnidDemon
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If you just met her then I would say you are desperate, but I would need more details to give a better answer. |
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Rob K
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I feel for you, Chris.
After 17 years together, I lost someone I loved dearly to cancer, three months ago.
The grief of her loss is overwhelming.
We were totally connected and she was my soul-mate.
I don't know if I'll ever get over the loss. |
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vdv_desantnik
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I felt the same when I split with my wife a few years ago. Now in about 6 months im re-marrying a lovely women I met last year. You will recover, a little at a time, and there will be another woman in your life |
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little miss naughty
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what do you want us to answer. |
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**JANET A**
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hi there everybody goes through this at some time in their life. it is the most horrible thing to go through! but it actually makes you a stronger person in the end up! really i think everybody has to go through heartache! i actually have a little feeling in my stomach of what your going through and mines was nine years ago. you will be fine! |
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My Pitseleh
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i feel the same bout my ex, its ok matey you'll be fine |
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painterlady
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Take it one day at a time, you will go through stages of heartache. It does in time ease how soon depends on each individual. In time when you feel you are ready you will find another who gains your trust and love. |
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goldfish1679
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desperate? nah. maybe your just heart broken.
hope you feel better though. |
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shelly
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that's pretty deep man.
but what's the question...? |
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snowman
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I know how you are feeling as I have just recently gone through the same thing, feels like you are litterally dying inside, worst feeling ever. But each day does get a little easier, it helps to get out and about even if thats the last thing you want to do..good luck.. |
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itsdmtkid50
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As with all things, this too shall pass. Your heart will mend, it may take sometime but it will mend. Good luck. |
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Jordan Murray-Future Dictator
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emo much? |
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nicole
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its not desperate...you had feelings for someone, and it didn't work out...give it time, and your heart will heal |
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