blackjackgirl is back
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first off,not all internet relationships are bad.
The real question is,why would you agree to be on a phone plan with someone you never have met,and even think about marrying him!!!!!
Face it,hes a user and sadly,you were used. He also took advantage,knowing that you were grieving over your dad(Im sorry btw,I know what its like)
Take a break from guys and most likely a really nice one will come your way.
Its a difficult lesson,but it sounds like you learned something.
Good luck |
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blahsblah2001
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Well, at least you learned not to trust random strangers with your money.
I love you, please, marry me.
See how easy that was? I don't mean it a bit, and it was easy.
Now, if you could just get a little bit of grammar and punctuation worked into that unintelligible mess, you might work up some sympathy.
But not likely. |
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Grace V
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Talk to a management class! Like a marriage class or the police. Or tell him it will not work out. |
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Squirrel cage
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Oh my God, Mary. So sorry to hear this, I really am. I feel for your hurt and the hole in your heart. I can not take your pain away, but I can say you are not alone as I have been there before, so have most of us. I and I am sure, others, too, care for you. Take some comfort from the fact that you are not alone.
God bless. |
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Jack Mehoffer
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wow meet someone in real life! |
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JourdanJustine
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STAY AWAY FROM HIM! You shouldn't contact him at all ever again, and may need to get a lawyer involved to pay off any bills he conjured up under your name. |
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Reannon
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online you can be anyone you want to be. or anyone that someone else wants you to be in your case. u never know someone until u meet them and chances are if he started talking to you out of the blue he is doing it with other girls too. if ur going to meet guys online i suggest maybe trying to meet some that live close to home so u dont have to wonder and stress it so much. im sry this happened to u he really sounds like an ahole. neway its not your fault just forget about him he just looking for some excitement |
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ianchelseanutter
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Trouble is, you lost your father and I know from experience that this makes you very vulnerable. It sounds like you hooked up with a schlemel, but don't brand us all the same, either all men or all internet users!
I met my wife on the net, and we had some problems, but now we working real hard on being happy!
You know what they say, honey, you gotta kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince, don't give up!
Send me an e mail if talking will help, I'll be a friend for you, ok?
Ian xx |
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1epic1
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really. that's a good observation since YOU NEVER MEET HIM! that was a really stupid mistake. next time get some background checks or something. or just don't dat people on the internet. |
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johnny trash
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thats why we don't talk to strangers |
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Billy B
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Unfortunately many people do these types of things over the internet. Personally I think meeting people in real life is better than meeting people on the internet. You can never really be sure whos on the other end of the screen and what their intentions are. At least in real life it removes some of this ambiguity. |
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~Kelsee~
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HAHAHA u were gonna marry a guy u have never met for all u know it could be a girl or a 62 year old pervert FORGET BOUT HIM! Go find a real gut not a fantasy |
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Crazy Auntie
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Yes, you were played. Be thankful that the phone service wasn't in YOUR name. |
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Amy W
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Sounds like you should have heard the warning signals coming. |
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repoclosing
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It is true about the con part but it is true he had a lure that you took. Will you do it again? |
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momolulu370
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you dont go for guys online, duh he wuz a con u should hav known that first, you should hav met him in person at a local place |
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Edie
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Always be careful with people you meet on the internet! Thank you sharing your story. I hope others learn from your experience. Unfortunately you did not disclose this man's ID here on Answers, so nobody knows who to be aware of. |
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vicentev22
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i think that he was planning on using you, i think you got off easy there are some guys out there that just stalk ppl and then you wont be able to live your life, so try not to talk to him no more if he's starting with those excuses and you guys arent even married can u imagine how will he change if you would of gotten married good luck |
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Kitty Flynn
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I'm glad he is out of your life Baby Doll, he used you.....that must still hurt alot. But someday soon you will meet a wonderful man who is truly deserving of you :) |
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Rhea
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I think that you can never know who is sitting behind the oppisite computer screen. It's better if people didn't date on line, not that I'm saying it's BAD, but they don't know everything about the person on the other end. |
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Why so SERIOUS ?
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hello
u choose a wrong guy |
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Cribber
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I think you should have known better than to hook up with some faceless person from the internet. $500 is a small price to pay for such a valuable lesson. And you said he gave you a hard time right out of the box... you kinda asked to be used.. and you were. Learn from it, toughen up, wise up, and move on. |
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Orly O
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you never met the guy, yet you guys shared a phone acct. you knew the guy 2 months, thats just crazy! i say let it go , move on. Stop meeting scammers on the internet!! |
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hbd94- <3's her contacts
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My god...that's just awful! I'm so sorry for you! : ( |
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ღஜღPardonne Moi ღஜღ
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ohhhh...tell us who it is! Yeah, red flags were raised all over. |
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gotta luv da Li
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Internet relationships aren't real relationships. They only small pieces of two ppl and often don't include the totality of either. Ppl can also pretend to be whatever they want, and take advantage of others much more easily than in person.
Helping others to the detriment of yourself is codependence. Get a couple books. It's easy to fall into without realizing it.
You are worth more than some guy who uses you and is full of blaming. Don't settle for less. |
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♥
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you got played
Why would you share a phone plan with someone you met on Yahoo Answers anyway? I am sorry this happened to you, but that was just silly of you to even think that would work. |
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now she is gone
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don't let 1 incident ruin things for you. I have met over 25 internet contacts, not from YA's but from other places. Stick to what you have learned, never make any deals with anyone, ever. Not even offline.
If you are going to meet, always always meet in a safe environment, a very public place.
have enough time for both of you to talk. Nothing but getting to know one another offline as well as online.
you can spot a louse a mile away, if you know what to look for. |
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catz
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it sounds like you used up all his minutes. |
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Paul A
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Hi Baby Doll, I'm very sorry about your Father, that has to be really hard on you.
There are a lot of cold people in this world, that is an unfortunate reality. And, that couldn't have come at a much tougher time in your life...
The fact that he cheated on you says a lot about his lack of character and integrity - which are important traits.
If you need a shoulder to cry or lean on, please drop me an email.
I wish you the very best :-)
Paul. |
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