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WALK INTO AN EMERGENCY DEPT OF YR HOSPITAL------THEY WILL GET YOU A DR RIGHT AWAY------GO NOW------WELL GO!!!!!!!TELL HIM JUST WHAT YOU TOLD US-----DON'T WAIT-----THIS IS HOW LOTS OF PARENTS LOSS THEIR KIDS------SHOW THIS TOO YOUR MOM AND DAD-----MY SISTER LOST 2 BOYS THIS WAY------IT WAS A PACT THEY MADE TO DIE TOGETHER
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gourou
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What you need to do is meditate. Grab a straight back chair sit in it and just be there. Do this daily for an hour or so. Make no effort to do anything but be there. It may get unpleasant and difficult but you will eventually get over it and the rewards will be amazing! Also exercise it will help you get over negative emotions-particularly jogging. Do not touch any antidepressants they make you even worse and more suicidal: http://www.antidepressantsfacts.com/ |
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sweetpea
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I've dealt with this all my life. I don't think I would really go through with it. It is just an option our society has presented that it is there.
I pray you never really consider it. I hope that if you ever got close that you would dial an number to help. But personally you sound like you suffer more from self worth. Like you have low self esteem. You need to work on this. If you feel good about you well then these thoughts won't be so quick.
Get involved with more activities at school or work, Get a hobby, do something for a friend that is down. A surprise cookie, a pass for a movie, invest some time in things that you like to do.
I got a college education after years of procrastination. IT was the best thing for my self esteem. I believe in an education. Don't loose track of you. Do things YOU want to do don't follow the crowds...you can never live up to the social status. Be yourself and you'll be happier. Remember you happiness doesn't depend on your mom or your dad. She may be going through a harsh time and take something out on you. You need to understand that and not take it into your soul. |
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montana_leather_thong
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yes, talk to a professional. not to your school psychologist or your friends. a professional. they will guide you best. if you are bored/tired of living the same life, change things around. walk a different way to school, try different food, pick up a hobby, get a pet. remember, the world is much greater than your city block or your state . explore and exhaust all possibilities in that world and then slide into the grave shouting-Man,what a ride!!! |
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david_strickland31
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dont worry i have had this same thought but only [1] time. and believe me it is not fun. the best thing to do is see your doctor about this he will set you up to see a specialist. and he or she will help you. do this immediately before it gets worse. and believe it will get worse if you dont come to grips on this right away. |
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butterfly_lashes
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any thoughts of ending your life require attention...seek out help from a professional, and in the meantime, have someone that you can turn to that will be there for you |
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prerana
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please consult an expert/physician |
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azera_007
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if u think thats whar wilol help you |
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mukherd
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You should definitely see a physician if you have had suicidal thoughts. effective therapies are available today. |
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alpha & omega
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Yes! I advise you to get all the help needed. As the degree of suicidal thought decreases, you will learn better how to adapt to life that is precious and beautiful. I invite you to read some bible scriptures and any good reading, uplifting materials either written or watched on TV. Remember that the real cause that births the suicidal thought will go away with time and you will be glad that you stay alive today. |
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marie
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gYou should gp to Doctor to get help. If you don't know a Doctor go to the emergency room of the nearest one . They will help you. Good Luck! |
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auntjewly
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most definitely............get help........suicide is permanent answer to temporary problem.........good luch hun |
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luvouhellen
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If you have suicidal thoughts of any kind,even a little,then I would suggest you get some kind of help for it!! If I were your parents,weather I didn't know if you were telling the truth or not,I would still take you and find out for sure!! That is nothing to be taken lightly!! |
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DDR freak
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u should |
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deb h
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SWEETIE I AM HAPPY TO HEAR YOU ARE NOT HAVING AS MANY SUICIDAL TOUGHTS AS YOU USED TO, HOWEVER THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE GETTING BETTER. THOSE THOUGHTS ARE ABSOLUTELY NOT NORMAL. IF YOU DO NOT SEEK TREATMENT NOW ODDS ARE YOU WILL ACT ON THEM ONE DAY.YOU NEED TO BE EVALUATED BY A PSYCHIATRIST AND THERAPIST. YOU MAY NOT NEED MEDS BUT YOU MOST DEFINITELY NEED THERAPY. ASK A DR. ABOUT SUPPORT GROUPS FOR PEOPLE WITH DEPRESSION. YOU WILL BE SURPRISED AND RELIEVED TO KNOW YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO FEELS THIS WAY. HANG IN THERE SWEETIE, GET HELP AND YOU WILL GET BETTER...I DID. |
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silver_princess16_03
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talk to a friend or maybe a parent. it doens matter who you talk to just find someone to talk to. |
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Good Listener
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Counciling its very easy to find somewhere to go for free search the net to have a look if you can see somewhere you need to get to the root of your problem believe me im currently in counciling myself |
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the_one_and_only_loka
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jes you should still get help with this because no matter how often you get them, they are still suicidal thoughts...you never know...one day they might just throw you over the edge and you might just do it...you need to talk to someone...even if its not some like high paid therapist or something, just talk to someone you knwo will help you |
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towandakim
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Yes. If you aren't comfortable talking to your parents, then talk to a guidance counselor and if school is out in your area, then call a hotline like 1-800-949-0057. Keep the number on you. Call anytime, 24/hrs a day. Call when you have the feelings or thoughts and call just to talk to someone about the thoughts you've had in the past. If you're comfortable talking to your parents, ask them if they could help you find a counselor to talk with about the feelings.
1-800-949-0057 |
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babygurl
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uhh im like that sometimes too cauze my boyfriend broke up wit me even though he said he loved me. but try talkin to someone u trust n they will understand you. |
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sonofawindowdresser
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My answer... ignore SHELlA S and those like her. Paying attention to her heartless reply is the sort of thing that feeds into depression and related thoughts. First, you need to talk with someone about how you can boost your self image. Second, you need to look at what you can change in your life to allow yourself to come out of where you are in your mind. Seek things in your life that allow you to connect with others on a level that interests you. Acknowledge your state of mind, and do what you need to do to fix it, but don't dwell on it. That's how I dealt with my problems.
I find it interesting that the heartless answer by you-know-who above is one that recommended speaking to God. I won't get into a discussion about religion here, because it isn't the place for it, but it seems to me that a person who believes in a god at all should have some compassion. Just for the record, I don't believe in any god. I only believe that people can choose to want to help those around them. Or they can choose to be [insert expletive here].
You need to seek someone who can council you; a person who has the compassion to want to help people who experience these sorts of thoughts. You will learn, in time, to council yourself.
And don't try meditation, as someone suggested above. Meditation is not a proven method of therapy. Sure it allows one to relax, and clear one's mind, but I wouldn't want to put it to the test of dealing with a serious issue. |
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Dachelle T
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yes, even if it's just to get stuff off your chest |
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Samba Queen
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Well, I guess mom and dad can wait and see if you really do kill yourself. |
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lily
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its very hard for me to tell this story but i think you should know.
my son in law had depression and he talked to his parents about his sucicidal thoughts and they just told him to be a man and deal with it. after he and my daugter were together and had a baby on the way, it got out of control for him and he succeeded in killing himself, right in front of my daughter. she was so freaked out that she ended up losing my grandchild. she started drinking all the time and finally ended up in jail for dui. after that she checked herself into a rehab program and got help. this was 3 years after the sucicide. of the rest of our family, 3 others became so depressed they also started having sucicidal thought and we sought therapy. finally after 4 years of getting the rest of the family through it, i had a nervous break down and i cried and i cried and i cried.
the thing is that at first when he would talk about sucicide to my daughter, she didn't understand, she felt if he could work all day and function in the world he had to be ok, that he was just saying that to get attention. for a long time she blamed herself cuz she didn't take him seriosly.
the thing i am trying to say is this, you are the only one who really knows this pain, you may get sly answers from those who don't want to see your pain, but you know you need help or you wouldn't have asked here for unbias opinions. PLEASE PLEASE find help, there are free clinics like planned parenthood who can help you find drs or counselors who do free sessions, they will never notify your parents.
i know my son in law never meant to cause so much pain for us, but he did and you will too if you just ignore this. i know if feels as though there is never going to be a happy moment in your soul again, but as one ot the ppl answered it is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. an old saying goes, this too shall pass. altho they never say how long it can last, it took my family 7 years to start seeing the rainbow again, get help....pronto.
lifting you on eagle's wings,
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jozlyn
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How old are you and yes get help right away. |
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vmbbfreak06
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yes, you may need depression medicine like lexepro |
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treecie06
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Yes dear u need to get help, for yourself..this is serious. |
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Jenn
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Get help. Talk to someone about it. |
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Knackers
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see a phyciatrist and attend to this problem now its bloody serious. |
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Wizzard2
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Its hard and embarrassing to admit that you need help. Unfortunaely, it cnt be found on the internet. Yes, this is a nice distraction and thats ok |
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LongShot
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get some help |
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