Mixed Kid
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i'm not a big fan of them
but saying as a group i'd say few like chubby girls
but just hope for the best that the guy you like does |
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Winnie
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Hey, despite what most people think allot of guys like chubby girls, I'm a tomboy and I hang with guy's ALLOT and mostly they COMPLAIN about their girlfriends being to delicate and frail looking. There are even strip clubs that only big girls strip in, no skinny chicks allowed, it just depends. The best way to lose the weight is just plain and simple, cut bread and sugar, exercise. You can feel confident whatever size you are, as long as you learn to love yourself and not fuss over every-little-thing...guy's hate that to by the way.... |
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Hen
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no...is that why your avatar looks mad? |
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Savannah
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Hey Don't b too hard on yourself! Everyone deals with weight problems. But wat you can do is fix your diet and exercise as much as you can and eat healthy things like fruits and vegetables. Hope this helps! |
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David D
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more cushin for the pushing LOL IS WHAT I ALWAYS SAYS |
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Chris J
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go after shy guys, they are much nicer and tend to be less picky. (i.e. they care just as much about personality as looks) so your personality could win him over. i bet your not ugly. go workout at a gym or just take a walk outside everyday. |
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wesuda54
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It depends on taste, some guys like chubby and others like less chubby. You are very young and should not rush for guy to like you. Try to loose weight for your health. You may jog at least everyday and eat heathy. It is always recomended to consult your doctor before starting a diet or excersise rutine. good luck! |
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ā„Amberā„
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Im exersizing and only eatin 1500 calories a day and ive lost 2lb in a week! But i lose weight really fast |
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Fear
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Not all guys dislike chubby girls! Some do and some don't, they're people, and their personal preferences are different.
However, you should try to lose weight, simply because it's healthier.
I stay slender by going to the Y every day of the week. I run for a half hour, lift weights for 15 minutes and then stretch for 15 minutes, and on Tuesdays and Thursdays I take yoga.
You'll feel alot better once you're healthier! And remember that all guys have different preferences when it comes to looks, so dont' worry about what guys think about your appearance too much. Just try to look healthy and nice in general. :] |
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Ulty
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Gaining a few pounds ain't the end of the world, and shouldn't be that difficult to lose if you put your mind to it.
I'm not an expert on weight loss, but I've gradually lost lost 20 pounds over the course of the year by trying not to think of it as a diet, but a change of lifestyle instead.
Eat 4 or 5 healthy small meals per day, exercise atleast five times a week, and the weight will come off gradually. It's no big secret, aslong as you eat healthy, and exercise, you will lose weight.
Some guys like overweight, some don't, it's a personal choice. I would say that you should lose weight because you want to, and not because of some shallow guy. |
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Flo D
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NOT ALL GUYS HATE GIRLS THAT ARE CHUBBY! just some my husband met me when i was 180 and he thought i was allright looking ... and he's really good looking he's sweet and sensitive.. you don't need to be with anyone who judges you on your weight,... and be confident people can tell when your just faking it.. confidence attracts people there if a line between confidence and egotistical pick your favorite body part and emphasize it if you have nice eyes play them up with nice make up draw other peoples eyes away from the parts of your body that you don't like also dont wear really tight clothes . find clothing that flatters your body type take your measurement(hips waist and chest) and find out what body type you are there are all sorts of websites that offer the best clothing for this and that body type and soo on and soo forth love your self even if you think nobody else does |
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Drizzt
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maybe you could have rode your BICYCLE to see your friends. exercise and you get to see them. you don't need to drive everywhere. just don't fake your confidence, guys will see right through your b.s. |
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Kristi
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your right men are soo caught up in the way a girl looks than how they act or what is important to them. well diets never work, what works is eating but eating with precaution, like don't go to Duncan donuts anymore, it's like poison to your bod. and eat lees calories, make sure you only eat 2,000 calories a day, that's what i did and i lost three pounds. another way to slim down is to eat more fruits & vegitables, i know everyone says that, but it WORKS!!!! hope you have good luck.
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Echo
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I have the exact same problem, 15, parents work, cant drive, bored to death.I just want to loose about 10 so this is what im doing; Im starting soccer though so if you get into a fall sport that will help. Im also going to try slim fast shakes and lean cuisine microwavable food that I can eat for lunch.
If you want to gain confidense around boys, you can always just start texting them (if you know them). That will build confidence alot.
And, sadly, hot guys dont like fat girls. Im not too fat, just a little flab around the edges which I am going to loose. But my dad also says that right now im getting leaner since im growing, though that may not be the same for you. But my cousin used to be really fat and then once she hit her growthspirt, she lost it all. She also got really tall and skinny. So that might help increase your confidense by learning about your family's weight loss/gain.
And last, just stay away from fatty foods that include lots of oil and sugar. Trade in that piece of cheese cake for an apple when your craving something sweet. Fruit is healthy and has great tastes that will satisfy any suger sweet needs. :) Hope it helped, good luck! |
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sweetgarnet
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First, you don't need people to validate who you are. If you keep thinking like that, you'll be asking the same question here on yahoo when you're 25. Now, it would be beneficial if you lose weight so that you feel physically better. I think some of the things you could do is to walk, jog, run. Whatever you prefer or like to do. I like dancing so I know that keeps me sweaty. Just work out get your heart moving and breathe a little harder. Get involved in some sports if you'd like. Ride a bike. Jump rope for a good 20-30. Just don't run yourself down to the ground.
I know you're young, but find time to realize who YOU are. Have fun. Like I said, don't wait until you're at that age where you may want to get married and possibly be a mother. Figure yourself soon. Find out the type people you like to chill with, what you like listen to and so on. Sky is the limit. 1 |
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jaysangel040106
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no guys dont hate fat girls..just carry yourself with confidence and lots o great guys will be attracted to you..its al in the way u carry yourself hunny...keep ur head up |
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Emma
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Losing weight because you think guys won't like how you look is so stupid. You should only want to lose weight because you want to feel better about yourself.
Only shallow ones hate 'fat' girls, personality should mean a lot too.
If your desperate - healthy diet and exercise - fad diets never work. |
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Kornlover
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most dudes hate fat chicks but like skinny chicks |
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bwaaaare
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loose weight to be fit and health. but no matter what you have to be conferable in your own skin before you will gain confidence love yourself first and others will love you. but to loose weight just eat right go for walks and do cartio you need to get your heart rate up to burn the calories
good luck and remember love yourself first |
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Steve A
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i doubt your fat, but just eat right, dont eat junk food and play a sport where you have to run a lot. the weight is probably just from growing. And yes there are guys that will like chubby girls |
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kristĪµŠø ŠøicolĪµ ā®
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if a guy judges you solely on your weight, then you dont want to be with him, if he loves you, its for your personality, and he thinks you are beautiful no matter how much you weigh, guys will be guys. |
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J S
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i dont think guys hate fat girls because my mom has this best friend and her doughter is turning nine and she weighs 198 pound witch is really unhealthy for her age but it doesnt see to get in her way that much because she still has those "chrushes" like regular 9 year olds do . but as she gits older she might find it to be a bigger problem . but if you think you a little over wight just being on a simple diet wont help . you have to excersize along with it . every one is built differntly and you might find that the guys dont mind at all . |
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Matthew Turri
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more often than not, men love chubby chicks... don't listen to skinny, insecure girls that just want you to feel bad about yourself. |
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Jrockz1
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not really
i much prefer an overweight person to an anorexic person
and to me chubbier girls seem more fun to be with |
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sassysophisticate14
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Only lose weight if you want to, not for a guy EVER. Some guys like chubby girls. Just work out during the school year. It should be easy to lose since you're not able to sit around and eat out of boredom. Just take it easy. Let a guy come to you. You can try not to be so self conscious. Guys can tell when you're faking it. Just RELAX. |
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helpishere27
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I love chubby women |
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Tristin Merta
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this is rediculious, guys might say they like skinny chicks and schit like that, they like confidence, plain and simple.
stop caring about what guys think of u, ur 15.
love urself, only YOU can make urself happy, if u think u'll be happy when ur skinny ur off, if u think u'll be happy when i have a bf, then ur really off.
find happiness with urself; love urself and then others just might love u too...but why should u care when u have peace.
the comon problem with people, especally us teenage girls is we want a quick fix to happiness...but that's just too bad, life is not a quick fix to happiness.
no matter what u have or want you'll never be happy until u find contentment with yourself!!!!!
i have to same problem but u just need to come to terms with urself.
look at urself in the mirror and say "what u see is what u get, love it or hate it"
::snaps fingers in z formation::
"bee-otch!"
LOVE YOURSELF!!!!
BEAUTY IS IN THEY EYES OF THE FCUKIN BEHOLDER! |
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