ayz
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Never trust him, what do you think he didn't respect you all what he needed from you he get it. |
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sanity789
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dump him thats just messed up |
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wreck'd angel
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Why are you even asking that question?
He VIOLATED you in the worst possible way. . . .NEVER, EVER, EVER, go back to him.
It must be a confusing time for you now, and you're still in shock.Being drunk is not an excuse for him to take advantage of you.That's just wrong on ALL levels!!!!!
Stay as far away as possible from him, until you've been for counselling and have the strength to confront him, so that you can get some closure.
Please, juat stay away from him. |
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bitter sweet
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no way hunny you deserve so much more than that and being drunk is no excuse for him to do that and tell the police if hes done it to you chances are hell do it again |
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Eagleman
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Sweetie,
Don't even bother saying good-bye to this sick individual. If he has abused you once in this unspeakable way, he will do it again. Trust me. Please don't let yourself become a punching bag or a door mat. Don't let yourself be taken in by the pleas and apologies of this person. "It will never happen again, I love you, I wouldn't do anything to hurt you ever, I was JUST DRUNK"! Don't listen to any of that! If you agree to continue this relationship you are giving him the go-ahead to do what ever he wants to you. I am assuming you are a young woman, it's a tragedy that you have had such an awful thing happen to you. May God Bless You and Guide You in Making the Right Choices.
Sincerely,
Eagleman |
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Nicki K
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Being drunk is not an excuse for him to do that to you. If you said no he should have understood. I don't know how you can even consider staying with him |
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fiddlesticks9
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You really MUST report him, no matter how much he uses the 'drunk' excuse. Being inebriated is not an excuse for illegal, inappropriate behaviour.
He's your bf, you probably think he's a fine person to this point. Guess what, he's PROBABLY done this before, to other women, and he is NOT to be trusted again, he WILL do it again if he gets away with it THIS time.
WORSE YET, he will CONTINUE to do this with other women, because he's not just a 'drinker' out of control, he's a RAPIST.
Do yourself a HUGE favour and report him, dump him, and most certainly, do not see him again.
By the way, don't punish yourself for being raped, it was not your fault. You are a good person and must recognize that although you were THERE, you were certainly not responsible for what happened. |
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carlosofia2000
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hahaha, ur serious? well dump the guy, and try not to b so dumb in choosing guys |
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hotblonde
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thats your body,,no one has the right to touch it if your not willing,,drunk or not,,dump him |
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jardin
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call the police and report him. |
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spacenut10100
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No. Dump him and tell the cops! |
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lili
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How can you think of trusting him again? he RAPED you girl wake up dump him now you never know what he might do to you the next time he gets drunk |
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shakira
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thats ridiculous dump him now! and go to the police |
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Best-Of-Enemies
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The fact that he is your boyfriend (still) says as much about you as it does about him.
Does he drive a truck by any chance? |
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woolywoman
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Please don't, he is using drink to try to excuse his despicable actions, because if he was that drunk he physically wouldn't able to. |
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rumjumbie
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Rape is rape. There is no pretty word for it and no excuse. Get rid of him and go to the cops, no matter how long ago it happened. He had no right to violate you that way. Whatever he did to you, it is not love. |
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amandasmama
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You deserve someone who will cherish and love you when sober and drunk. He needs help. No is no is no. I didn't catch how old you are, but contact a cousnelor at your HS or college...or contact your local crisis line. They will help you with this process. It is very easy for me to say...dump him....turn him into the police...but I am not walking in your shoes. Which is why I would recommend an impartial trained professional to help you with this process. Best wishes to you! |
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firedup
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No way, chances of it happening again are very likely. |
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autyauna
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No,he raped you,how could you ever trust him! You need to report him and get rid of him b/f he does it again! |
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Mocha81
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NO !!!! If he does it once he will do it again and who to say that next time he wont beat you or bring some friends and gang rape you. Lets say that you stay with the person and you two get married and then he rapes your daughter how would you feel about that. God wants me to tell you that he got something else in store for you something better hang unto that. |
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mystina777
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No. Dump him and have him charged. He will do it again, if not to you, then someone else. |
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puffy puffers
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he should be in jail right now. You should really consider dumping him. Some men tend to use being drunk as an excuse for their bad actions some women too at that.
Why would you want to second question that one?
He raped you. If he does it once, he's going to do it again and who knows, he just might do something twice as bad the next time around
You need to be calling the police and getting yourself some help. The reason why I suggest help for you is because rape is a traumatic thing whether you know it or not. It really is . It may not get the best of you now, but it will soon enough. |
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GreenGrasshopper
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Only if you're willing to possibly go through it again one day and end up giving up your dignity because you'll know you could have prevented it this time.
I hope that was not something you really went through though. |
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hey yo
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It doesnt matter if he was your boyfriend or just the boy next door. You dont deserve to be treated like that. And should respect yourself more by turning him into the cops. If you cant do that at least get rid of the turd. |
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tywiena
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nooo |
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thomasrobinsonantonio
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Self induced drunkenness is no defense to a criminal act nor can it be used in mitigation. Trust him again, you must be mad. If he cannot control himself at this stage of your relationship what will he be doing in ten, fifteen years time. He will be beating seven shades of sh*it out of you. Kick his ar*se out of it........... |
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Lynda =]
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it felt good didn't it? |
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mc
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No, it is unacceptable, if he did it once and you did not react, he will feel free to do it as many time as he would want or be drunk |
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