Quicksilver
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Most teenagers have their first crushes on older women/men, such as perhaps one of their teachers. It is normal. |
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Ryan
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Nope, I'm 20 and trust me, hot moms are awesome!!! The correct term is a MILF, hope this helps, later dude.... |
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Thin Kaboudit
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Perfectly normal. |
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bluffmike
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Not wrong or weird.
That's when they are at their very best. :) |
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Money Mike
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It's perfectly normal. Been checking out the MILF's lately? It's fine, there's nothing wrong with that. |
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teambargain
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no, unless you start by asking them if they have pretty feet! :) |
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dburneson@sbcglobal.net
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First of all, what was the relationship like that you had with your own mother? Did your mother die, divorce or desert you as a child? Or, was there a major loss such as a grandmother, aunt or teacher that you had a close bond with? Are you attempting to replace a former older female that was in your Life? If all of these former relationships were healthy and trauma was not involved and you feel secure within yourself, try it out. But, I suspect your trying to replace someone from the Past. The answer lies within you.Ask yourself, who do these women represent. And, what do You really want from them? The support of a counselor may bring some answers to the surface much more quickly. No, I would not say, you are weird. But, some Self-analysis or digging would be a plus. You will grow in self-confidence and strength in searching for the possible answers. Good Luck. |
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apache672004
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There is nothing wrong with a young man of your age to find older women attractive.i'm 38 years old now and i find some older women than me attractive,and when i was your age i fond some older women attractive,what i whould consider wierd is if you didnt find any women atttractive that whould be wierd so you just keep having these feelings toward women just dont become a sicko or rapist and you should be fine. |
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BriBri
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yes |
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Joe
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50 is kinda old but no, lots of pretty actresses are in that age group. |
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Johnny Angel
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nope |
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fortinbrasmonkey
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You're an adolescent - your hormones are spinning madly and frankly, preferring older women isn't that abnormal. When I was a 16 yr. old girl I was attracted to much older men, and now that I'm 30 I'm still attracted to that age group, it's just much closer to my own age group now. Don't worry about it - unless you act on your impulses you're fine. |
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marielpantera
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Well, I do not believe that it is odd...if you find older women attractive than it would seem fine, however if it is some deeper issue that needs to be confronted, you should do so... |
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coolbeansnyc
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It's not wrong but it is inappropriate. You need to get help from a professional...good luck |
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Jack.Bauer
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Nope. Not at all. |
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matt
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try with younger people,they are more wonderful,of course.and it's not so normal i think ,you are 16 not 40!!!!!!!! |
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loopylooloo
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no its perfectly natural specially that age |
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missourigal_194420002000
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some men prefer older women by large age span- maybe looking for a mother figure. |
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GrimmyBear
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Not at all. These are normal for your age, if acted on however she could go to jail so best to just keep these fanatsies for now. |
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♥Trinity♥
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no its not wrong |
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Miss D
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You don't really have control over what you're attracted to so, no it's not wrong or weird. It would only be wrong (and illegal) if these fantasies were acted out. Wait 2 more years and you can do whatever (and whoever) you want. (with their consent of course!) |
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carobygirl
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Talk to somebody in person about that. |
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cdf-rom
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It's not unusual for a boy your age to be attracted to your teachers. This is something that will decrease as you mature and get better acquainted with girls your age. Right now, your body is still getting used to the changing hormones and powerful juices flowing through it. And, all the school day long, you are required to interact with mature, competent, educated women. Someday, when you are mature and educated, and have gained competence from life experience, you will be able to attract an adult dreamboat like them. You wil be an adult yourself then, ready for it. For the time being, don't be worried or embarrassed. These things will happen in their own good time. |
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wildbill05733
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Read up on Oedipus..(sp) |
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nocturnal
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Maybe not 35...thats a little strange...and 55...thats very strange.
Everyone is attracted to different things...so it's OK to be attracted to older women. Just don't act on it until you're 18. |
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marvawhitney@sbcglobal.net
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your mental process is trying to lead you, follow it |
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ballsonwalls
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uhh
not if youre a dude
i wanted to bone anything that walked when i was taht age (Female of course) |
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