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Am i just weird or is there really something wrong with me?
i don't care if i ever see my grandparents, i don't have a relationship with them and i don't want one. my nephews B-day is today and there haveing a party for him and i don't want to go, i just don't care. i hate being around crowds of people, it makes me nervous. my parents think theres something wrong with me because of that.
most of the time i am a pretty happy person, i love my parents and siblings and friends and i like being around them.
well i just think that there is nothing rong with u dont go if u dont wont to
caitie
You could have a minor social disorder, but you have friends so it is not some thing majorly to be concerned about.
tkron31
Could be just shyness. If you're okay in small groups of people you know, fine. Lots of people, even ones who are perfectly normal and social otherwise, dislike large crowds.
Wilde Enchantress
Actually the mention of you hating being around crowds hits really close to home. I am suffering from PTSD that has me with Social Anxiety and a fear of crowds. You very well could have a Social Anxiety issue, that could be treated through therapy or with meds. It may not be anything to do with your grandparents specifically--just that visiting them means a guarantee of a large group that causes you anxiety. If your parents agree there is something "wrong" then talk to them about getting you into a therapist, or just your family DR. GL and be well.
Gennight42
You may have some phobia of being in crowds of people. Personally I find it okay not to care if you have no person relationship.
♣RikiTikiTavi♥
I don't know how old you are but I would not say there's something wrong with you. Not all people are sociable. At least you are self-aware, and you probably prefer being alone or around smaller groups of close people. I am that way, too and I am in my 30's. That's just how you are. I would not worry unless you are feeling bad or sad or depressed.
mrsz_top_notch
Face it, you're shy. You're like me.
catmanbigwil
Chill Out. I went through that phase too and eventually after about 10 years it finally passed.
I'm the same way and always have been , when I was a kid
I never wanted a birthday party , and if my parents
threw one anyway I'd take off , I'd say you're normal for you
♥ Tori ♥
maybe you are having the beginnings of anxiety problems. talk to your doctor about lexapro. it's a wonderful drug. i'm on it.
♠♣♥Rogue♣♥â™
Depends on age I think. Younger people dont want to hang around family, when older it may be depression.
Snagelfritz
Yea, you weird! BUT, we ALL are at times, so, that makes you normal. Many people sometimes just want to be alone. Normally we are Social Creatures, but, sometimes we just need some space. There nothing wrong with not wanting to be around certain people, but, it is nice to try. Take the Grandparents. To you they may seem "Old School" BUT, research some music you listen to. You may be surprised to find that a Song/Movie are Remakes of something they enjoyed when young. Then be ready for some stories and be willing to listen. ASK them how they met, and, IF, you can, ask Grandma where/When they first made love!!! ;-p IF, Grandma not too inhibited you may open a relationship you NEVER imagined!
Veritatum17
Sometimes even social people need time to themselves. And everyone has their own preference on personal space.
That you don't want a relationship with your grandparents is your right, however, all family relationships are easier if you at least try to get along with everyone in the family. You may want to come up with a good excuse so your nephews' feelings (and everyone else's) aren't hurt.
urkrazee
I think you just don't want to be bothered with anoying people and, although you may love them, don't want to bother showing it...
Angel
u should go because they are family and u might get 2 know ur grandparents really well if they were 2 die any time soon u will feel really bad that u never really knew them and then ur chance will be gone and u would feel like trash cuz u always try 2 avoid them and not try 2 get 2 know them
Amanda
i think your just anti-social
abercrombie_lover101
i think u are just going through a point in life where u have mood swings and ur happy ur sad ur feelings are all over. dont worry about for now