to clarify. would i be depressed if everything was ok.. so am i just p*ssed off? Additional Details you lovely kind people thanks. i cant do anti depressants. im fighting it . sometimes ...
I would like to know how to handle this delicately. The man responsible will be out of prison October of next year, and we will have to face him in court to make it ok for me to legally adopt the ...
i feel lost and i dont know who i am. i need hope. what if everything in my life goes wrong? i feel so alone, please help :-( thank you xxx Additional Details aged 14, not on medicines, ...
Im 19 years old. I still live at home. I dont go out, i dont do anything fun. I dont have any friends in town, they all went off to college. Basically i have no friends. I go to a job i hate and i am ...
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mydreams
Why am i like this?
since chilødhood i have a complex that i m ugly. no one has ever told me that and even ppl say my looks are above average but still i feel ugly and hate it when someone takes my photo during any occasion.why so? i need advice!!!!!!!!
How old are you? Do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend? If not, go patao someone. Went through the same thing.......now feel on top of the world.
scorpio girl
relax man...beauty is a matter of opinion. each person holds his/her own beauty. what truly matters is the person within. trust me you could be a beauty queen but with a f**ked up personality all the "beauty" is gone...
sharrona
Maybe you just need to accept it as a "complex" and let it go,
most people go thru this at a younger age and teens, and all grow out of it.
Be patient, and replace the negative thoughts with positive ones.
It really does work. Tell yourself each day what beautiful eyes you have, nose etc.
work on it - - good luck
Donna B
Maybe you should go for counseling, I'm not being dumb. Also, apply at a modelling company, you'd be surprised! Could really boost your self esteem.
coolbabe
just be confident!!!!!!!!!!
afi.girl
basicly your saying your self concious....hmmmm....I'd say just 2 take a good look in the mirror and see what you think.If u still think your ugly ask someone you trust...like your mom! You think your ugly cause you never pictured your self as a beautiful person. Maybe you never think about your self 2 much....So just ask your mom or do something new 2 your face!! Good luck......
Travis S
This is a tough question to answer because there could be multiple reasons why you feel this way. A good thing to do would be to go to counseling so you and the doctor can analyze the problem, figure out exactly why you feel this way, and make some changes. I don't know if you exercise or not, but if you don't it could dramatically effect the way you feel about yourself. Another possibility could be a memory that makes you feel this way. You could also be a person who likes to hear someone tell them that they look handsome/beautiful. So try to figure out what makes you feel this way and fix it and like I said above counseling is the best way to do that. :)
* Deep Thought *
Somewhere in your childhood you probably had an experience that left a stain in your heart and in your mind.
In order to stop this, you must start with your thinking.
Think good thoughts about your self.
Start looking in the mirror each day, and tell yourself your are beautiful.
When you do something good, or complete a task, reward yourself, buy yourself something special, or give yourself flowers.
Start loving you, and appreciating you by counting your blessing, if you have 2 arms, legs, hands, feet, eyes, and do not have any serious skin conditons from being burned or scarred.
You have a lot to be thankful for, stop having a pity party, and enjoy your life, you have a lot to live for, and appreciate!
James
Everyone is amazing looking to someone, and each one of us has their own very different tastes. In general though, being attractive is simply about having symmetrical features, and confidence to some degree.
Saying that though, I hate the way I look as well and know where you're coming from.
bluefairymyst
Insurcurity. Maybe you havn't found yourself to be comfortable with yourself. Try reading some self-help books, discover who you are, got for it, you'll feel better, I know I did. If ya like to shop buy something that makes ya feel good even if it costs more. Go to the spa that helps too.
star322_982000
I know how you feel. Just start telling yourself you are beautiful and dont listen to your friends that say your looks are average, thats wrong, a real friend will tell you you are beautiful, i dont care if my friends had two heads they would still be beautiful to me.
jicolo
under what parameter you are ugly? who cares, just do your best on what you do
I change my name72
Maybe your mom and dad never given you any complement.To me people are always pretty good looking on the out side.Why?Well,I say everybody has there own personality's.Me am fat but Am pretty in the face.To me if people don't like it .By all means don't look at it.Why again?I love it.Because I love myself.Plus If i don't somebody going to have to.Wright?
Indian beauty
This world has its own idea of beauty...U see it in the magazines and on Tv. Its everywhere! So there is so much pressure to look like like that, we even have negative thoughts to ourselves because we dont.
I had this problem too. Everyone always told me that I was ugly since I can remember. (And trust me I'm not ugly) I heard this so much that I eventually started tellin myself that. And I hated myself. Its funny how things work, because someone can say something negative about u and for the rest of your life it plays back in your head. Stop telling yourself that youre ugly and stop being your own worst enemy. Because youre not ugly.
catzrme
I have had a similar experience. I remember looking into the mirror at age 5 and thinking how ugly I was. I actually won a beauty contest at one point. Think really hard. I believe it was a verbal abuser in my family who constantly made me feel unworthy-which caused the problem. I think you will be surprised how things impact you.
Mike M.
I know for a fact that you're not nearly as ugly as me. In fact, I'm so blumin' ugly I would make your worse nightmare seem like a pleasant dream.
blueyedblondej5
Sweetie, don't be so rough on yourself. In a society today, it's hard because there is a lot of pressure on how you look. What you need is counseling. I used to be really hard on myself, and still sort of am to a degree, but it's a lot better now that I have counseling. They give you a lot of tips to help you feel better about yourself.
iRapedMySelf
you think you are ugly? HA. Wait till you see my face, it'll give u nightmares. Trust me theres is no such thing is ugly or beautiful. Every one is samething, people just think they are attracted to eachothers. Sorry for my spellings.
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