mysticduder
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Sorry, you're upbringing must have been rough....move away ang hang out with some gays...you'll be okay. |
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Andy
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There's no cure for gay-ness. You are going to have to accept who you are and live with it. |
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skiddishballers14
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i think its fine if u r.power to ya. |
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Zelda Hunter
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You can live with it. You just need to move to a community that will accept you if you are gay. You can still have a very good life if you are gay. You can also choose to move to a community that does not require you to make a choice about who you are. Move there and decide how you can lead a productive and fulfilling life. |
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Chris H
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Can u explain more...are u depressed about it, like u want to kill yourself...i dont know if i can help cuz im straight |
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thezaylady
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Sweetie, no! You are who you are. Please love yourself. If it's religious views, find an understanding minister to talk to, such as a priest from the liberal side of the Episcopal church.
If it's the society around you, re-locate. Many places are LGBT-friendly.
Please don't give up on yourself. I'm sorry that I don't know of any easy answers to give you. I hope you find peace in your life as the person you are. |
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Jean A
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You need a psychologist to help you accept yourself for whoever you are. There is nothing wrong to be a gay. if other people whom you considered as friends can not accept you for what you are then forget them for they are not truly your friend. Love and respect yourself first before you can do that to others. |
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Carol S
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Please check out www.exodusglobalalliance.org
They can help you.
Please don't harm yourself. You were born for a purpose. Who will take your place if you kill yourself? We have been given so much in our part of the world, not to keep it for ourselves, but to share it with those who have nothing.
Check out absoluteontheweb.com They will help you to make a difference in someone else's future!
Don't waste your life; use it to help someone else! |
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steven25t
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this is your biggest challenge...accept yourself for who you're...DEAL with it, LOVE yourself...and life will be better dude...:) good luck, with your life |
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Jack Chedeville
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I think you have other issues besides your being gay. |
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lovepixiek
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Y WOULD YOU LIKE TO KILL URSELF.. BEING GAY ISNT A BAD THING... ITS THE WAY U WERE MADE... U SHOULD LEARN TO LOVE URSELF FOR WHO U ARE NOT WAT U LIKE...THERE IS NO CURE BECAUSE ITS NOT A SICKNESS!!! |
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kckmellons
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well i have friends that are gay and yes it is hard but don't deny who you are. there is no cure to who you are. if you need help accepting it then maybe go to a therapist that specializes in this. but don't even consider death that is no way to solve anything. embrace it hope this helps and good luck |
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Sunflower
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The finale choice is yours, but I wish you would think twice about it or wait until the morning to think more on this when your mind is clear.
You need to join a support group or seek counseling because you are not alone in this process of accepting yourself. Yes, I said accepting yourself because you don't right now. Everyone, T.V., family, friends, articles, have said negative things about being gay and you have embraced the negativity.
I will pray that you seek help and accept yourself as you are.
Take care ! |
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Proud momma to a baby boy 8/27
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Neither....being gay isn't something you should be ashamed of!!!!!!!! you will probably get some negative feedback but don't listen to it!! |
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married with baby
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There is NOTHING wrong with being Gay... I have several friends that are gay and they are the best friends anyone could ever ask for!! Don't be down on yourself for the way you are.
There is no "cure" for being gay, just embrace it and except yourself for who you are... You will be much happier when you can do this. |
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FARRAH
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Just deal with it. It's who u are...just don't marry a woman to cover up your gayness...it will destroy her...believe me... |
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darling
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NOTHING is worth killing yourself over...
re-evaluate your situation and if you can't resolve your issues in a safe manner by yourself, please seek mental health help...
possibly counseling and group therapy with others similar to your thoughts..........maybe this would help...you aren't alone, Im sure there are others out there that need help coping with their feelings like this as well..... Seek help!
good luck and good mental health to you! |
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Makemeaspark
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There are good ministries out there to help you with this. Never Consider killing yourself!
Here is a good one: http://www.exodus-international.org/
I know at least 5 people who have been delivered from a gay lifestyle one is happily married and one is engaged to a lovely lady. The others are content with knowing the Lord and have excellent Christian friends of all kinds. |
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