Danny
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tell me how it helps with your problems? |
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Rowan
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Well, obviously it is for the attention as there's no other positive affect of it. |
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Sandra M
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You do it because it is an obsession and they make medicine for that. You need to see a therapist and a psychiatrist. |
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Chelsea Meow
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Seek professional help...?
put rubber bands around your wrists and snap them when you got the urge. |
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onlyiamme
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Wow another typical case of ignorance. You do understand it's not cool to hurt yourself but seeing as your only 13 your naive enough to believe that it is helping you when in actuality it's not. You may feel like your the only one with your problems but your not and there are offers who are suffering a lot more than you can even imagine. Stop pitying your self and go do something that keeps you wanted to always do regardless of what you have to do to accomplish it because one day you will die and that's it. |
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Janet G
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First of all it wont help. Second of all try getting rocks and a table. Bang the rocks against the table. I swear it helps. |
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georgeVII
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hi,im 14 im not sure about self harming but i reckon you need something to make you fell more confident. You should join a club or get a new hobby. something to make your life better. |
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Sophie
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you can talk to someone about, your mum, your friends, a teacher from school or a psycologist or someone... if youve had problems then you need to sort them out or they will never go away, self harming or drugs or drink just makes you forget for a bit and/or gives you more problems. you need to get help or you will live your whole life in pain and sadness... |
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Cheyenne ♥ (Pro- Sarcasm)
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Therapy.......Don't hurt yourself just because something isn't going right for you right now. It will only make it worse. |
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Melissa Cole
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Have you tried talking to a school counsler? You don't need to tell them about the self harm, but just talk about some of the other problems in your life right now. That can help a lot. Some people think we do it for attention, but that isn't the case a majority of the time. You really should try and talk to someone about you problems before it gets to much out of hand. I'm 22 and still struggle with cutting. Trust me you don't want to deal with this for a long period of time. Talking about it is simple, and a start. Don't force yourself if you don't want but it's better than where you are right now, isn't it? Keep your head up and good luck with everything. |
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Rosa Mystica
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This site has a lot of useful links...
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/cutting.html
Also, consider giving this number a call...
Self Harm Hotline
1-800-DONTCUT
Help for "cutters" |
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<3
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Therapist. it really helps I swear =] |
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Butercup© ily mark ♀ + ♂ = ♥
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i want to know too. im 15 |
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sarah b
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i think you need to talk to someone. harming yourself isnt going to help with your problems |
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Fifi Cherry
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hey ya. i know what you mean you feel out of control and you need to be in control so what do you do? you cut.
at the time it appears to be the best thing but it is not
talk you your friends about it it helps to know there is some1 out there who can help you.
when you feel like cutting go somewhere where there are alot of people then you cant do it.
i hope that has helped |
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Gemma M
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I read in a magazine once that holding ice cubes in your hand is an alternative some therapists and doctors recommend as you feel pain but it doesn't cause any damage to you. Saying that I think you should go and see your doctor or a counseller at school who'll be able to refer you to someone you can talk too about your problems. It sounds like your friend really cares about you, she probably had a go at you over it as she's worried you might do serious harm to yourself. Good luck x |
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dollydean
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self harming isnt solving your problems.it is adding to them.to sort problems you have to face them which can be scary at your age.see your teacher or some adult you trust.you need to stop this now.let your friend help you.she cares for you.your skin is to pretty to scare.be strong girl.help yourself get out of this.girlpower.you can do it.ask for help an it should be there if not get back to us all. |
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Elli-lou
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you are probably doing this because you think its your fault or something like that but you just need to talk to someone about your problems I'm sure your guardian wouldn't mind you telling them. |
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Lucy
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try crushing ice in your hand.
it gives you the same feeling as cutting but no harm is actually done.
feel free to e-mail me.
I was a cutter but not anymore.
I'm 14 |
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big foot
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heidi, plez stop. it's not helping u with ur problems. its 1 of them. i was a cutter.same age as u. my arms had so many cuts i had 2 wear long sleeve all yr round. i was abused as a kid by stepfather.[ i even hate saying he was my stepfather] from 2 yrs to 9 yrs old.i did'nt know what 2 do. i did'nt tell any1. it was all on me. so to take the pain of what happened to me away, i started cutting, just a lil at 1st. then more, because i could focas on that instead of ' other' things. it worked 4 awile, then it was booze, then drugs, anything, 2 make itstop. the pain from 'st/fthr' only stopped after i started talking about my problems. not all at once, but a lil at a time. it took many yrs. for me to get my head straight. and it's ahard, and even sometimes scary,. road to go, but u gotta take it. start talking 2 SOME1! a teacher, a minister[it does'nt even hve 2 be a minister u know. just go 2 a church of ur choice & START Talking. u will feel sooo much better the more u let ur inner feelings out. keep a journal. let ur feelings out there, 2.it really, really makes a difference. i look at the scars on my arms now, and all they remind me of how far i came frm there. u can do it, heidi. ur stronger than u think.what i always tell myself is, GOD never gives u more than u can handle and everytime u handle something the right way, u get stronger. ur voice bcomes louder & u will feel better about urself. u can count on that, i ptomise. so, don't take my road, make 1 of ur own. a better 1. good luck, and GOD bless u. u CAN do this. |
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