sweetnlovenkindagurl
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Maybe hes just not responding voaclly yet. It could be a normal thing, have u talked with ur doctor about this, maybe he may need some therapy or someone to work with him, my son was a late talker, and even now hes really quiet. so, good luck to ya, hope everythings ok! |
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EINSTEIN
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My son had a similar problem.Could barely talk until 3.It was a problem with his ears which went away with time and speech therapy.See an ear,nose and throught dr.Good luck.. |
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da rinse mode
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maybe he does not like your attitude, i dont |
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*glamorous*
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I have never experienced this because I am not married nor pregnant or have a baby. Try taking him ot the doctor. He could just be a late bloomer. Spend long hours trying to teach him. I reccomend taking him to the doctor and they will help you. A lot of littler kids cant talk fully at 2 years old. Don't be too worried but take him to the doctor. |
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Elaine
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You should really ask his doctor. There could be a lot of different things wrong- hearing problems, autism, developmental delays...
I don't want to scare you. I understand that there are cases where children just don't speak for a while and they turn out just fine. Please take him to the doctor to be sure. There's just no way anyone on this board can tell you for sure what is wrong.
Good luck. |
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tessasmomy
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I would have him looked at by your pediatrician and maybe a speech pathologist. |
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oih
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Different children develop at different speeds some start talking at 3 |
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k8
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probably nothing lots ofchildren do not feel the need to speak maybe others do it for him. if your are really concerned ask for him to be referred for speach therapy i did this with one of mine at two and a half it can be fun for them. If he is still not talking by the time he goes to nursery the school will look into matters for you |
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Heidi
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If he does not talk at all, have you talked to your pediatrician? Have you had his hearing checked? Does he make any sounds at all? Cry, Babble, Coo? Have you considered the possiblity of autism? Talk to your pediatrician. |
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haute_coco
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have you took him to a doctor.....he might not be ready, i know it might sound crazy. does he make any sound...i have a cousin that didn't speak till he was a least about three he gibbered words all the time we didn't know what he was saying. his mom just worked with him and talked to him everyday. read books to him...but i think that you should take him to the doctor. good luck so sorry. |
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rainingonme
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Does he stare off when you try to communicate with him? Tell me more if you can. There could be several things. But if he doesn't respond to you emotionally in a loving way or he doesn't play with other children. Does he come to you when you call him? If any of this is a factor you need to take him to your child's doctor and tell him. A form of Autism is one of these causes.
Or do you just have him to point at things and you get them for him? If this is the case try to make him say what he want before you get it for him Do you read to him and does he respond?
Have you had his hearing checked?
I have a friend that has a child that has a form of Autism and I noticed this when he was around the age of 1 1/2 and I told her but she didn't take him to the doctor. I worked with this child and I taught him what I could. But she just didn't try. He was almost 7 when the school told her he had a form of Autism and he has to work with a specialist every school day and he needs help at home but he doesn't get it because she want go and learn how to work with him and she' not very smart herself. I'm not being mean she's a real good person but she doesn't know the difference between the fake world and the real world. But I'm still her friend and I try to help her because I know it's not her fault because of her roots or up bringing and other problems. So take your son to a specialist if you have to and find out early because the earlier the better. Thank you for being a concerned parent. Goood luck and God Bless You! |
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cope123
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he might not be able to talk at all but the samething happened to me my parents said i didn't talk till iw as almost three and part of that is cause my mom spoke alot of korean to me and my dad spoke alot of english to me |
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PokerChip
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Some develope slower than others.
It doesn't mean that something is
wrong. But...Have him checked
out. This will catch any problems
early. :) |
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Tuco
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I don't think he has cancer. I am not an expert, but I can gauruntee that much. Speak to a doctor. hehe, got you to add details, I know you knew it wasn't cancer. Seriously though I don't think anything is wrong, I had neighbors who had a kid like yours he was a little past two when he actually started talking, smart kid last I saw him, but check with a doctor anyway. |
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James M
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Probably nothing wrong with him. I've watched many kids growing up and most start speaking between 2 and 3. Some can say a few words before they turn 2. |
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Scott D
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I'm sure that you have tried in the past to teach him words. But does he make noises that 'may' sound like words? Don't take this wrong, but he may be developmentally challenged. There's always that possibility.
What I've done with my 8 month old is lay on my back and place her on my chest where her face is right in front of mine. I then slowly say words over and over. She stares at my lips and is very attentive. I even spot her lips slowly move as if she wants to try. Then, as time goes on, she makes noises that sound like words. For example, she says, "Dee. Dee. Dee" She's slowly getting DaDa out. Also, she says "Mmmmmmaaaaa". Again, she's slowly learning to say Mama.
You have to make it a daily duty to try to teach your baby words.
I read a book that we should talk to them in regular voice rather than always talking 'baby talk'. The baby will learn to recognize what the words 'really' sound like.
I also sing a lot to my baby. When I do, she loves it. Everytime I take her in my truck, I sing to her. Now, when we're in my truck and I have the music playing (I'm not singing), she will make noises as if she's singing.
Keep trying. Don't give up.
However, it doesn't hurt to talk to your pediatric nurse or someone to check to see if your baby has developmental issues. It's crucial at this stage and it's definitely worth it to check with a doctor.
Don't be ashamed or scared. Thousands of kids have the same issue. |
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TweetyBird
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Perhaps he's deaf. Have you had his hearing tested? Stand behind him and bang a pan and find out. Otherwise, you should be speaking to his pediatrician - not us - and unless your son has cancer, this question doesn't belong in this category. |
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Tabbitatt
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some kids are a lil slower, my lil bro didnt even start talking til he was 3.5 yrs old. Dont worry, eventually you will be remembering these days and wishing that he would stop talkin :) |
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Max
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Some children are a little slower to start talking than others. Boys are often slower than girls. The boy is probably all right and will probably start to talk before much longer. |
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grannywinkie
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What a wonderful mother you seem to be. If you need help with any nasty people, let me know. I will be in to help you. My son was having great problems and had problems talking at two. I had to move to a larger city to get medical help for him. The second visit to the new doctor, a hearing test was given and he had his tonsils and adenoids removed. He had tubes put into his ears. He changed and learned to talk right. You may have to search and search to find a good pediatrician to help him. Just love him a lot. When talking to him, have him watch the movement of your mouth to see how each word is made by your mouth. Please make sure that he tries to tell you what he wants. Some parents just give the child what he/she wants when they point the child will end up going to school not talking because he/she was never shown/made to say the words. Happens a lot. |
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razi_woman
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The only word I said at 2 was "No" except I am told that it was always said like this, "nonononono" lol. I have always been above average intellectually, although I am horrible at athletics. Essentially I am a normal person, I just didn't feel like talking until I was two. As long as his hearing is fine, and he seems to understand all the other basic concepts a 2 year old son should, I think you are fine. |
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floatinround
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You definitely need to get him assessed by your physician. I can tell you however, that it doesn't necessarily mean there is anything wrong. Does he say any words at all? Mama? Dada? One of my daughters was slow to talk. It was just her personality. There was nothing wrong. She didn't start blabbing until after 2 years old. Your dr can tell you however if it is a developmental issue. If he is not behind in other things, though, it may just be a personality thing. |
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nygiantsin2000
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my sister has a little girl and she never talked it was until she was about 2 years old and she had her hearing checked. they found out she is deaf. try getting her hearing checked. hope this helps. good luck. |
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James
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What kind of noises does he make? How does he interact with you? Also, how many older siblings, if any, does he have, and how old were you when you had him? |
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RedHairedTempest
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Does he not vocalize at all? Or do you mean he doesnt put sentences together...but has some words ? My nephew was a late starter with speech...he had to go to a speech therapist for a few years, but speaks beautifully now. Your boy might have hearing difficulties....or it could be that he doesnt speak because he has no motivation to do it. Some kids have older siblings that speak for them, or a parent interprets hand signals and facial expressions...so the child has no need to verbalize. You should talk to your family doctor if you are really worried about it. And dont worry....almost two really isnt very late for speech ! |
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Suzan K
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Look at your son,s eyes, he does look intelligent. So he will speak. Usually boys speak late, especially if he is your first. My son spoke at 2 years old, I was never worried, as his eyes looked intelligemt to me. |
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Santal
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I have a friend who has a little boy with Apraxia. He's not deaf either but has very limited speech. He was tested by a developmental psychologist who made the diagnosis. Apraxia is the inability to convert thoughts to words. He's made great strides by learning some sign language and working with a speech therapist. It's important to get an early diagnosis and to do early intervention so that he's not delayed in school. Since he is only two there may be no problems at all - just slower than others in developing.
There's a PBS show called "Signing Times" that you might try to find on your local stations. Also libraries have books and DVDs, videos, to teach sign language. It helps because children with language problems can become very frustrated in trying to make themselves understood - and parents too.
Good luck to you and your little one - hopefully you'll be able to find a good pediatrician who can help you both. Blessings ... |
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jomar
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Different children develop at different speeds, it does not mean that your child is stupid, he's just developing he's speech slowly. If you are very concern you should talk to his pediatrician and he/she can refer you to a speech therapist.
It's not too uncommon for a child not to speak at the age of two, but you should talk to his doctor. |
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gitsliveon24
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First tell your doctor. Call every hour if you're not satisfied with his answer. I'm no expert but if there is some disturbance in your household, that could effect it. My daughter was potty trained at 2, then I went through a divorce & I had to start all over again. I could've sworn that she was going to be in diapers until high school lol, but once our lives got settled, she was back to normal. I didn't walk until I was 4, so each child walks & talks at his own speed. Believe me, I know you're probably driving yourself nuts with worry but in 5 years you'll look back & hopefully laugh at all the unneccessary worry. Good luck |
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lalasaint
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My first thought when I read your question is that maybe your son is Autistic. I work with mentally challenged adults and most of the Autistic ones are either mute or have very low communication abilities. Please have him tested as soon as possible. The sooner he is diagnosed, the sooner he can get therapy and be on the road to higher development. He also may be hearing impaired. Please take him in for evaluation. |
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Doctor J
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I don't have any 'answers' for you. But, it may help to know that Albert Einstein did not say a word until he was four years old.
Best wishes. |
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