ileea1
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How about asking her to take a walk with you? You both could start a new routine and get healthier. Start a hobby that is active, that you can do together. |
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arely
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dude there is no way u can tell her about her weight and not help her getting pissed off at u .. that is very touching to women |
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allisonbps
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casually ask her to take walks with you, go hiking or start running with you, get her motivated and active but be involved! play tennis or go swimming, etc. don't make it seem like you are trying to get her to loose weight, make it seem like you just want to be active with her and get out and do things together! cook her healthy meals or take her out to resturants that serve healthy food rather than eating a lot of junk. i know i would be more likely to loose weight if my husband approached it like this rather than just telling me i'm fat and i need to shed pounds. |
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...vlad...
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that is a hard one man a girl and weight just get things heated. You should sit her down and tell her your worried about her health and how she should lsoe some wait and that if she does you will buy her something. Good luck dude. |
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take walks together find a shooting range pick up casings for the added help even sale as scrap find walk paths mountains fresh air that all is good for weight lose the get dieters green tea chines store or health foods have her to sweat en with honey run up stairs. |
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tiger325
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be careful with this one .however make her think she is helping you , ask her if she will workout with you or walk. try to watch your eating habits as well and before no time she will too . this site might give you some useful tips.
www.lose9lbsevery11days.com |
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Ayo A
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it's a touchy subject but u are probably the only one who can. I think u could start walking by yourself on a consistent basis at first, then u can get to invite her to come along some day. when she does, u need to walk really slow and talk/joke most of the time so she'll want to do it again. |
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jlcjills
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You don't say a word. Trust me anything said, no matter how well meaning you are is going to blow up in your face, and she will not lose a pound.
No one losses weight when they are not feeling good about themselves. Low self esteem is not going to make her lose weight. But a positive attitude about herself and your relationship will cause her to want to be the best she can be. |
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:: Coast.al
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There's nothing you can say towards her that she wont take offense to. And, you're a little bit... shallow. Regardless, I can help - but its going to involve getting off your butt, too.
Tell her that you want to start exercising more and see if she would be interested in being a motivational work-out buddy.
That way you both get exercise, and there's no pointing fingers, which is rude - especially when it's your girlfriend. |
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gerardo d
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maybe go shopping together, pick a clothe you like and doesn' fit her, and you really like it , maybe she will felt bad and try harder. |
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Tomdelong S
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either help her out by doing it urself along with her
or bribe her ;)
good luck |
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dlich007
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I CANNOT ANSWER THIS QUESTION!!!!
My ex broke up with my because i tried my own way to motivate her and she didn't like it. If a female gives you a sincere answer go with that!!!!! They know best!!! |
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wife2denizmoi
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You really can't do much without offending her. How about telling her you want to plan a nice vacation for the two of you next summer and you want to get in shape with her so you two will be able to have a great time....then you will have to keep up with the plan, like dieting, walking, etc. Just do it nicely and make sure something good is waiting at the end. It could be medication, a medical problem, stress or whatever that is causing the weight gain. |
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Meghan
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Do it be having a discussion with her. Tell her you really want to improve your health, and want to start a diet and exercise program. You need her support and think you should start working out together. Put together a viable work out plan, and start making healthy eating choices together.
You may have put on a few pounds too, and this will help you both get healthier, only increasing energy (which can definitely benefit the relationship) and have life long lasting changes to improve yourself. |
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SDjenna
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Maybe get her to join a sports team with you... like recreational soccer, or join a jym and ask her to come along when you go. Also, tell her YOU want to eat healthier, then she'll be forced to eat healthier when she's with you and also be more active with you. |
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Wooderson
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Just lead by example, and invite her along. Phrase it as "something the two of you can do together" - girls are always looking for that kind of thing. |
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Angel_Blue
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you can't. the more times you suggest she do, the more she will eat cause you make her uncomfortable. People often turn to food because "it doesn't judge them"....... not to mention there's a whole slew of reasons women don't lose weight the way men do. Go on walks together... that will start the ball rolling. |
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greatmom2
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you can't make her do anything and if I were your gf and I knew you were on here talking about my weight you would be history. Does she even want to loose weight? |
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hi everyone!
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help her and support her suggest doing it together, eg, join the gym or eat healthily |
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slynswope
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i dont think there is a way for you to ask her to lose the weight without offending her. I would suggest asking her to workout with you so that you can get in shape or maybe just go for evening walks |
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dhdaddy2003
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by example and praise for when she make any progress or makes good choices |
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vanessa
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I would suggest that you start eating only healthy foods, participating in regular exercise, etc. When she sees you on a health kick, hopefully it will jumpstart her own weight loss. |
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mike_schlotter
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Touchy situation. Why dont you recommend BOTH of you joining a gym and going together. Come across as it is for you as well but something you can do together. Also, maybe you do some cooking as well and make healthier foods. When you go out to eat, tell her you dont want fast food or something like that. |
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The J Man
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You don't.
If she doesn't want to work hard to lose the weight, anything you say or do will just give her the excuse to do depression/comfort eating. |
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B.Kevorkian
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You don't. But, when she does decide to, you can be supportive of her, and that'll make it easier.
Good rule of thumb: you should always notice when she loses weight, and complement her on it, and you should never notice when she gains. |
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King Violation.
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I think she should dump you. You sound high maintenance. |
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simply_me
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Start going to the gym together or raquetball or something. Tell her you want to try something new together. |
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saraaaa.
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maybe you could ask her to go for jogs or go to the gym with you. so that you're both doing it together that she won't be noticing that you want her to lose weight. don't be all upfront about it because girls are sensitive and we take everything to heart. |
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cali_flwr
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You can't!
A woman's weight is a very touch subject. |
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â–ºsolo
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Ask her if she wants to join a gym with you. She can't expect you to stay attracted to her if she becomes too obese. It's not how you entered the relationship. Tell her you love her, but you're losing interest in her body.
Sorry... there isn't a nice way to do this. You just have to tell it like it is. Think about it.
PS. I'm probably going to get 'thumbs down' from all the fat people that expect their mates to stay with them after they gain over 100 lbs. Wake up people. This is the real world and I'm just being honest. He called her his girlfriend, not his wife. |
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