Boom
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Many guys are like this...he's just being overprotective. He may have reasons if you go out alot or if you have cheated on him in the past. Spend your time with him and give him lots of booty...that's all you can do. |
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jellybaby
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you don't need this kind of relationship get out before it's two late |
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Jo Ann
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You know your man does not trust you. If he even find faults in everything you do, your man is so insecure that he projects his insecurities to you.
Respect yourself. You do not need a man who belittles you and who does not trust you.
It is not your fault. It is HIS. |
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I_c_all
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couple things.
1. has he been hurt badly in past relationships. many times we act out that way when we fear you may treat us badly or like an ex did.
2. hes just one of those evil machismo chauvinist pigs, that don't know how to treat a woman. are you gorgeous and not meeting his behavioral standards...do your looks and behavior contradict one another? |
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Trish D
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He sounds abusive - leave him. There are plenty men out there who will respect and trust you. |
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Ya-sai
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Your man has low self esteem and needs anger management. Get him into counselling or leave, he will get worse in future. |
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Lilac Lady
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There are two things you need to ask yourself: 1, why does he think I'm cheating? (Maybe you work late or he has seen you with another man, or you used to cheat on your ex's and he knows you are capable of it even if you aren't) So why would he think this way, then you can start to change whatever it was. 2, Is he cheating on you and he is trying to turn it around to you to take the attention off himself, or he has cheated before and can see some signs of the things he used to do.
The other things of course are that he could just be really jealous and not have any confidence or he may have some kind of illness - seriously, it may just be that he has took much sugar in his system and gets annoyed very easily, or too much coffee that gets him agitated, you get the brunt of it because your closest to him!?!?!? |
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clairexxxx
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wot do u mean mitake have u cheated on him in the past |
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normantrousdale@btinternet.com
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Unfortunately there's nothing YOU can do, the problem is his,it will probably get worse my dear.
I don't know your situation but if you can - get out of the relationship asap.
He'll come up with every excuse to try and make you stay and will probably become nasty so make sure that your not alone with him when you break up. |
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Cody W
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Start doing his laundry, duh. |
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cuccumber
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hay i think this is ur first question, congrates on joining , it is difficult to answer ur question because if i look at from ur mans point of u, first i should know what makes him not believe in u ,if he really loves u he should u ,i think this is some kind of insecurity i mean not believeing in u |
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Justme@#*&$
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Do what I did to my husband, tell him that since his put so much energy into convincing himself that your cheating that his going to have to use the same energy to convince himself that your not. And that your not going to play that game of having to prove your not for the rest of your life.Once you start having to prove it he'll never let you stop. |
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presidentofallantarctica
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Look him right in the eye and say, "If you don't trust me, you shouldn't be with me, now quit pestering me all the time with silly accusations." |
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deed
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He is a controller........get out now! Been there, done that! It is hell on earth to live like that. You deserve better......... |
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LONDONER ©
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Well if there's no trust it's pretty hard to maintain a healthy relationship isn't it? I think you need to sit him down and tell him that when he accuses you of cheating it hurts you very much as you feel as though he's suggesting you're a wh*re with no morals.
Maybe if you were to let him know that his accusations are really hurting you he may realise that it's wrong and won't do it again.
That's my thought but you know what he's like so maybe this won't work? |
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brand_new_monkey
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Nothing. This man does not trust you, and never will. He will get abusive and it will just get worse. |
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Paula
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Whatever his underlying reason he still knows right behaviour from wrong behaviour. IT WON'T IMPROVE! If someone cannot accept someone else for who they are in all respects then that is their problem - do not make his problems your problem. No person either male or female should have to continually prove themselves innocent. No one should allow someone else to determine their mood. So you ask what to do ?. . . Get on with your own life and leave him and his accusations and your long line of defences behind you . . . before you lose your self-esteem , self confidence and strength of character. |
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me
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well where theres no trust there no love |
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michaeljennings37
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trust you have got to have that if he does not trust you there is not much there. |
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happyflamepepper
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Your man sounds like a bit of a bully. You sound like you have already started to blame yourself for his behaviour. Well hey, guess what, ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. He has no right to treat you so bad. YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG. Do not let him continue to bully you. Talk to him, he maybe feels insecure. Ask him to get help. If he is not prepared to try and change his attitude towards you then walk away. You deserve to be treated better. |
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