Casey
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girls that are size 6 think they are fat. my sister is a size 2 and says she's fat. maybe she's just saying she's fat so you say "you're not fat" to make her feel better. sometimes we put ourselves down to get complements. next time she says it say , "well if you think you're fat, maybe we can go for a walk or something". altho that may bring about a negative response from her, atleast it may jolt her to not say that anymore.
But even so, a size 12 is considered "plus size" but as long as she's healthy, i would say she's fine. i would consider a size 20+ on someone that's 5'5" or above is fat. to me, size and height ratio determine too fat. |
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v stupid
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Size 16 is fat. Size 12 is nice. |
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lynda
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depends on the height . If she is short, yes it might be.. but if she doesnt look fat then I am sure she is fine. A woman never thinks she looks slim.. we always see ourselves as heavier then we are. |
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SEJ71
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NO WAY! I'd give anything to be a 12 again! I was 12yrs old last time I was that size LOL!
Marilyn Monroe was a 14!
Tell her you love curves on a woman like J Lo or Tyra Banks, REAL women, not skinny wretches. Tell her you LOVE to look at her, she's you dream girl. If you go to her house and see magazines, ridcule them and get her to thrown them away! They portray dreams not reality.
She could be heading down into a dark place and needs to not only be told she's perfect, but to HEAR it with her heart & soul. you need to repeat it to her that she's perfect for you until she understands and that could take a long time. Are you committed enough? |
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salvationcity
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Unfortunately yes.
In the UK the highest 'socially acceptable' dress size is a 12. A lot of store don't stock higher than this.
Medically your girlfriend is a perfect size, culturally she's borderline heffer.
Personally, at a size 14 I'm in the 'too revolting to leave the house' catagory. |
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damianw99
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That's mental. Size 16 is fat, and 14 - nearly, but not. Size 12 is SO NOT FAT. Bordering on the anorexic there. |
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Liddy is Lost
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Sounds like she has issues. Size 12 is not fat!
I don't think you can class someone as 'fat' by dress size, but I know if a woman has over a 32-35 inch waist and over 32% body fat, this is considered overfat.
HTH : ) |
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lix
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I am only 4ft 11in and a size 12. I don't consider myself to be fat at all. |
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Natalie
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it doesnt matter what size you are - you can be light weight, small size but have higher fat percentage than somebody who weights more or is bigger size but has small fat percentage (e.g. bodybuilders)
so - i cant tell if she is overweight or not - it all depends on her fitness level. |
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denise s
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i can understand where she is coming from i was a size 8 now i am a size 12. it is very depressing for some women. no a size 12 is not fat i think a size 12 is the perfect size. i am learning to love my body and except the way i look and the way i look at it is as long as your care about her she will come around. |
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jessie
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It's hard to say because you didn't state how tall she was. If she's hippy or big boned, she can still be thin and a size 12. |
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leec
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well done you buddy, there are to many girls that want to look like they just walked free from a pow camp,ten is a nice size but hey im with you size 12 is about perfect in my mind,i would pesonaly say size 16 and above are large not fat ,fat is just as bad as saying ugly and large people arent always ugly . |
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NutstersChick
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it depends if we're talking a US 12 or a UK 12.
UK 12, no she's not fat.
US 12, it's kinda border-line from what i understand.
& for fear of getting a back-lash of
You'll make girls have eating disorders
& turn them from over-weight & unhappy
to starving themselves & unhappy.
you'd better wait for someone elses opinion.
they'll be more tactful than me. |
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Byte
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she sounds like a reasonable size for her height
find out her weight and then look up her BMI body mass index
this will be more acurate |
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jen07
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this girl is simply looking for attention and trying to get you to tell her that she is skinny its awell known trick used by girls with low self esteem.
you will never get her to stop unless you help her.
wether being fat or not it would depend on her height and unless she is four foot nothing then she is not over weight |
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♥hoozahuni♥
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no she's not fat!!!!!!!! |
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stewie
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no it is bloody not - tell her not too care too much about it. |
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Teslajuliet
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I am a size 12 and I am beautiful! I would say a size 18 and over is fat. |
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joe w
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Nope. I enjoy curves. You don't get that with some skinny crack chick. |
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Del Piero 10
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12 is ample. 16 is podgy, 18 is fat. |
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